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In December 1997, my Mother began not feeling right. She was having chest pain that went to her shoulder. She was adamant about not going to the doctor. We argued over her going. She later said that she knew the doctor would tell her she was dying. She went for a chest x-ray and though they said nothing, they treated her differently after they viewed the film. She knew without being told what was wrong. A day or so later, in his office, the doctor told her what she knew. She had lung cancer and was dying. The cancer was in the left lung and too close to the heart for surgery. She'd had it for some time undetected. When diagnosed it was inoperable, large, and probably spreading. The doctor gave her 3 months. She died March 27th, 1998 at home as she wished. She chose not to die in the hospital the way her Mother died.
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